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FAQs


     
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    If I leave the house can my spouse claim abandonment? 
     
    If you have decided to leave the home because of volatility or tension in the home, or some other reason that negatively affects how you and your spouse co-parent, co-exist and/or communicate, abandonment is an unlikely finding under RSA 458:7. To prove any fault ground, one must prove that the fault ground occurred during marriage and it caused the irretrievable breakdown of the marriage.  Under RSA 458:7 VI When either party has been absent 2 years together, and has not been heard of, or RSA:7 IX When either party, without sufficient cause, and without the consent of the other, has abandoned and refused, for 2 years together, to cohabit with the other are fault grounds associated with abandonment in a divorce process.
       
     2.  Do I have to pay, or will I receive child support if I have shared custody of my children?
      To be clear, an equal or approximately equal parenting schedule does not necessarily eliminate an award of child support per RSA 458-C:5(h)(1). In a shared parenting schedule, the Courts analyze various factors in considering a request for an adjustment to the application of guideline child support.
    Under RSA 458-C:5 (h)(2)(A)(B) and (C)

    (A)Whether, in cases of equal or approximately equal residential responsibility, the parties have agreed to the specific apportionment of variable expenses for the children, including but not limited to education, school supplies, day care, after school, vacation and summer care, extracurricular activities, clothing, health insurance costs and uninsured health costs, and other child-related expenses.

    (B)Whether the obligor parent has established that the equal or approximately equal residential responsibility will result in a reduction of any of the fixed costs of child rearing incurred by the obligee parent.
    (C) Whether the income of the lower earning parent enables that parent to meet the costs of child rearing in a similar or approximately equal style to that of the other parent.
       
     3. Who gets to stay in the house and who has to pay for it?
      Customarily if one parent has already vacated the marital home, the party remaining especially if there are children in the home, most likely would be awarded temporary exclusive use and possession of the home, absent a unique set of circumstances. The Courts do not like to make such decisions any more than separating parties do, so in the event the parties have already begun to take steps to separate, such decisions may be officially implemented by the Court on a temporary basis.  Paying for the mortgage, taxes, insurance, maintenance and repairs on the home will be assessed by the Court on a case by case basis in light of any child support and/or alimony awards and which party has the benefit of staying in the home. 
       
     4. Will I be held responsible for my spouse’s debts?
      Since it is difficult for the Court to determine on a temporary basis, which party shall be responsible for which credit cards, loans, lines of credit etc., the Court may establish a Temporary Order requiring both parties to contribute to the “household” debts absent clear evidence that such an Order is unreasonable or unjust. Each parties’ respective income and expenses also play a part in how the Court will assess a fair allocation of payment of debts/expenses while the case is pending.
       
     5.  Does NH have alimony and how does it work?
      Alimony, or spousal support is available in New Hampshire under RSA 458:19. Unlike child support, where there is a formula by which the obligation is determined, alimony is determined based upon a legal argument, that is to say, one party has a need and the other party has the ability to pay. More specifically, the party in need has to show that he/she lacks sufficient income, property or both to provide for his/her reasonable needs taking into consideration the standard of living during the marriage. The party seeking alimony also has to show that the party that has the ability to pay would be able to meet his/her own reasonable needs, i.e. living expenses and provide for his/her spouse’s reasonable needs as well taking into consideration the standard of living during the marriage. See also on this website Legal Services: Alimony.